In a society that values conformity, it is easy to fall in with the crowd and join in group think. 

The next time you are contemplating how you will proceed with a decision, stop and ask yourself if the decision you made is based on what you believe is right for you or if your decision is based on what you think others would want you to do. 

Remember, you have to live with your decisions.  Be brave and bold and do the thing that is right for you.  You’ll never be sorry.  Yes, you may disappoint people but that is there issue not yours.

May be one of the following expressions will give you the encouragement to do what is right for you.

• If everyone was jumping of the bridge, would you do it too?
• Don’t compare yourself to anyone
• Know your own mind